Tuesday, October 11, 2016

How Media/Sterotypes Can Negativly Affect Relationships and How It Relates to My Life


In today’s society, a lot of what we learn comes from the media, TV shows, and movies, and songs. I’m going to relate how women are portrayed/stereotyped in society and how it relates to my life. I’m going to relate it to Disney movies first. In Disney movies, the princesses are all physically attractive. The princesses are tall, unrealistically thin, long hair, and they don’t have flaws. They are always social, nice, caring, a good house wife, and they don’t work. They basically work for the husband. Also in Disney movies, the men are always muscular, tall, dark, and handsome. They are brave and courageous. The men or “Prince Charming,” always seems to save the day. Let’s do a reality check. Women are not perfect, and they are not made to just clean and cook and cater to the men. Women should not be unrealistically portrayed and neither should men. Men are not always strong, or brave, or save the day. In my life, I don’t need prince charming to make me happy. I cook and clean, but for myself. I’m not 90 pounds, I’m 140 which for my height and age, is a healthy weight. I have flaws, as does everyone else. I feel like stereotypes like these, influence relationships and allow us to have expectations and desires when looking for a relationship. Another example is how the media portrays both men and women. For example, there’s a Burger King ad that says “It’ll Blow…. Your Mind,” which a woman with her mouth open wide trying to fit the burger in. This allows men to look at women sexually, as objects. This could potentially give men/women the wrong idea and go into relationships negatively. This not only relates to my life, but everyone’s life as some point or another. If we have all these stereotypes, and unrealistic morals, we’re steering people negatively in the relationship world and giving them impractical expectations.

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